Meet our founderJenny Bowles
I'm a mum to three girls aged 10 to 16. My eldest daughter was born with cerebral palsy involving complex medical and developmental needs. She attended mainstream schools with the support of a full-time teaching assistant.
We have faced many challenges, including multiple surgeries, regular hospital visits, and a system that once predicted she would never learn or communicate. We fought hard for her health and education, but I didn't think enough about her social integration.
I accepted that, unlike her sisters, she wasn't invited to playdates and only the occasional birthday party. Mainstream out-of-school activities often weren't accessible, while provision aimed only at children with special educational needs or disabilities didn't always meet her needs. As a result, she spent much of her childhood in the company of adults, developing a quiet preference for solitude.
Over the past decade, I've searched for inclusive youth opportunities — activities where young people like Ella could build real friendships, mix with peers, have fun and feel they belong. The gap is glaring. Transition periods, including school holidays, moving from primary to secondary school and the road into adulthood, can be particularly tough.
My middle daughter, aged 14, is a young carer. Like many children, the pandemic hit her hard, especially the transition to secondary school. Anxiety led to difficulty attending school and affected friendships.
So we have experienced how complex and fragile friendships can be, but also how vital they are for wellbeing and development into adulthood.
Why Friendship Fusion?
Unable to find the right provision for my daughters, I asked others about their experience — not only friends and family, but 50 young people across six schools in Southport, families, partner agencies, the council and elected representatives. Those discussions, together with research about the importance of friendships, led me to create Friendship Fusion.
Together with an amazing group of women who form my Board of Directors, I want to create the kind of inclusive, welcoming, youth-led community I wish had been there for my daughters: a space where young people with additional needs, and those with vulnerabilities such as anxiety, can find connection, support and joy — and have the opportunity to practise the superpowers I know they have.
Jenny Bowles